Leading by example- Teaching our kids to do better by being better

My kiddo loves helping out especially with the household chores but not because I taught him that, but because he saw me doing it and wanted a piece of the action even if it was just taking the laundry to the washing machine. Honestly, I let him help out to keep him occupied… because how much can you play all day…not every minute can be educational nor can it be quality time right! Also, this way I can get a few things done too while keeping him entertained( even though the task sometimes can be worse off than before it started)

I think leading by example is the best way to teach something, isn’t it. My kiddo loves water and wants to wash his hands all day and sanitize too (unfortunately the pandemic has bought about this habit of constantly sanitizing which has become all fun and games for naïve toddlers). I just used the empty sanitizer spray bottle, filled it with water and let him water the plants. Win, win right ! you can’t really over water the plants with a spray bottle and also he get to sanitize sans alcohol.

“Watering the plant” chore is done, yea! so I thought. He managed to unscrew the bottle and overwater the plants spilling muddy water everywhere. Kids always find a way to complicate things…so even though he did water the plants, he touched the soil (to check whether it was wet) and spray washed his hand and touched the soil and sprayed his hand again…went on repeat for a while till he was covered in wet mud…huh…what was I thinking.

Apart from this he noticed that after I wash my hands I use the towel to wipe them off, so out of the blue he goes “napki de doe” (give napkin). Unconsciously he’s picking up on our habits…good or bad. Every time he sees me gnawing at my nails he puts his big toe or his hand in his mouth…( I got to watch what I am doing around him now)

He doesn’t pick up his toys after playing most of the time but when he sees me picking up the pieces he comes to help( only to spill em again but still the effort counts ) then on somedays he will actually put the toy back from where he picked it up which makes me feel so proud.

Kids imitate the best and the worst so a great way for them to learn is by observing ( and practicing ofcourse) and the best way to teach is not by preaching but leading by example et al.

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